Elimination Communication Video!
Nappy/diaper free, elimination communication, natural infant hygiene … all names for a system of toileting so ancient that it probably precedes names altogether! This very natural, gentle, environmentally friendly way of dealing with your babies waste is based on the belief that babies are aware of their elimination processes from birth and are able to communicate this awareness.
The nappy/diaper free method begins with observation on the part of the carers. This can take place at any time from birth onwards, but will probably be easier with a younger baby, whilst he or she retains an awareness of and communicates their elimination needs in some way.
As Sarah Buckley, GP and mother of four notes, “Elimination Communication also makes a beautiful contribution to my experience of mindfulness in my mothering. Like breastfeeding it keeps me close to my baby, physically and psychologically, and provides immediate feedback when I am not tuned in… The beauty of E.C has been in the process, not in the outcome, however remarkable and convenient.”
The nappy/diaper free way of dealing with your babies elimination, shows respect for your baby’s needs, openness to their communication and willingness to respond. When you have observed and become aware of some patterns emerging around their elimination needs and communications – for example, most babies eliminate upon awakening, or after a feed and will often wriggle or show discomfort prior to elimination – you can begin to hold them out over a bucket, potty, toilet or even a garden bed when you suspect it may be time.
It is a good idea to experiment with different positions for holding your baby during elimination, as what is comfortable for you and your babe will differ according to their age and size, and where elimination is taking place. A supported squat is commonly used; with the baby’s back resting against your chest, where they feel safe and secure, and your hands holding them underneath each thigh. The baby’s bottom is pointed slightly away from your body to avoid mess. This open position actually helps the baby to release their bowels, a handy advantage in those early months when small babies may experience difficulties.
You can also use a cueing sound when you hold the baby out, which can be anything you like, different or the same for both elimination types. Some carers use a “psss” noise… Consistency is the key, and the same sound/s should be used by any carers who are using the nappy/diaper free method with the babe.
This helps to establish a communication link; the baby gives a sign or signal and is held out in a similar position, with the same sounds. Very quickly baby begins to learn, and may exaggerate those signs, or make sounds when she needs to eliminate. Likewise, the carers become more confident at reading those signs and responding in time to ‘catch’ the elimination.
As the practise progresses and the communication deepens, the carers intuition also comes into play. We come to intuitively ‘know’ when our baby needs to eliminate and can respond accordingly. This adds a deeply satisfying element to our relationship with our babies and reminds us of the incredible energetic exchange that is taking place between carer and babe.
Elimination Communication can be practised full or part-time, or can even be put on hold during times when circumstances make it more difficult. As each family and baby is unique, so is the way they tailor their practise of EC to suit their needs.
This method of toileting has not been packaged, sold, and marketed to the masses. It has been handed down between generations, and is used in different ways by different cultures. More and more Westerners, aware of the problems our planet is facing, are also turning to this method as a way of reducing our environmental impact. The savings in water usage, detergents, plastics consumed, trees used for wood pulp, chemical production methods, not to mention non-biodegradable landfill, unsustainable, non-organic cotton farming, and of course transportation, are very significant for the earth.
Elimination Communication turns the tables on infant toilet training, making it ecologically sustainable, fascinating and fun!
Further Info
Nappy Free! DVD Made in Australia
Available thru www.nappyfree.com.au or www.kindredmedia.org
Infant Potty Training – A Gentle and Primeval Method Adapted to Modern Living, by Laurie Boucke. www.white-boucke.com
Diaper Free! The Gentle Wisdom of Natural Infant Hygiene by Ingrid Bauer. www.natural-wisdom.com
Mothering, Mindfulness and a Babies Bottom by Sarah Buckley. www.womenofspirit.asn.au/sarahbuckley
